Confronting the real life is never an easy task. It takes guts..lots of guts or maybe a just-do-it attitude. You either have to crush it or avoid it. Both are equally challenging and energy draining. There are times when you have got to tell yourself everything is just going to be ok and fine even though things are not going like what the society wants. That is like giving a pain killer for someone with a terminal disease. It eases the excruciating pain yet ignores the root of sickness.